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💰 How To Make a Coin Cardboard Home Bank – by ABBY 🏠 Hi! I’m Abby 👧 and today I want to show you how  I made my very own Coin Bank  using just cardboard, glue, and a little creativity! It's fun, easy, and perfect if you want to  save your coins at home  in a cute way. Let’s get started! What You’ll Need: An empty cardboard box (like a cereal box or shoebox) Scissors ✂️ (ask an adult for help!) Glue or tape A ruler A pen or pencil Color paper, markers, or stickers (to decorate) Optional: A coin slot stencil or small blade (with adult help) Step-by-Step Instructions 1. Choose Your Box Pick a small cardboard box that’s not too big. I used an old cereal box! 2. Cut a Slot for Coins Mark a rectangle at the top (about 4cm long and 0.5cm wide). Then, carefully cut it out with scissors or ask an adult to help use a small knife. This is where your coins will drop in! 3. Seal the Box (Almost!) Seal the box using glue or tape— but don’t seal the bottom completely.  Leav...

  Story: “The Half-Eaten Mango” By Coach Davie. In a quiet town, Amani and Nia—newly married, deeply in love, but still learning each other—were settling into their new rhythm of life. One evening, Nia came home drained. It had been that kind of day—the kind that makes you crave comfort. She walked into the kitchen and saw a ripe mango sitting on the counter. It was her favorite fruit, her soft spot, and for a brief moment, her heart lifted. But as she picked it up, her joy vanished. Half of it was gone. Seriously? He couldn’t even leave me a whole mango? She didn’t say a word. She simply sat down, her energy now clouded by silent disappointment. Amani walked in moments later, cheerful. “Hey babe, welcome back! I’ve missed you.” Nia barely looked up. “Mmh.” He noticed her energy had shifted. “Something wrong?” She snapped, “You couldn’t even leave me the whole mango? After the day I’ve had?” Amani was taken aback. But instead of defending himself immediately, he paused. Then gentl...

  DEALING WITH RED, YELLOW & GREEN FLAGS IN RELATIONSHIPS By Coach Davie – Davecha Moments INTRODUCTION One of the biggest mistakes people make in relationships is ignoring the signs. Sometimes, it’s because we’re so hungry for love that we silence our gut. Other times, we don’t know what to look for—or worse, we mistake red flags for normal behavior because we grew up around dysfunction. But listen, just because something is common doesn't mean it's healthy. And just because you love someone doesn’t mean you should stay. In this Love Talk, I want to walk with you through something I wish every single and dating couple knew: the power of red, yellow, and green flags in relationships. These “flags” are more than just popular lingo—they are tools to help you make wise, godly, and emotionally safe choices when it comes to love. Whether you're single, dating, courting, or mentoring someone who is, this will help you see clearly what many ignore—until it’s too late. Let’s ...

When Love Becomes a Trap: Toxic Women and How to Rise Above By Coach Davie | DaveCha Moments I’ve sat across from too many men—strong, prayerful, gifted men—who are now just shadows of themselves. Not because they lacked direction. Not because they failed. But because they gave their heart to someone who slowly crushed it… in the name of love. Today’s article is not about bashing women. It’s about exposing toxicity —especially the kind that hides behind beauty, “wifey material” standards, or even spiritual masks. Let me tell you a true story. A young man came to me, completely broken. His girlfriend would insult him in public , control who he talked to, and always made herself the victim when he tried to express his feelings. Every fight ended with him apologizing—even when he wasn’t wrong. The girl was attractive, smart, and even served in church. But behind closed doors, she was emotionally manipulative. This young man kept saying, “Coach, I love her… but I feel like I’m losing mysel...

  When Love is a Lie: How to Recognize a Counterfeit Relationship Before It Wrecks You By Coach Davie – Tuesday Night Love Talk Notes INTRODUCTION: The Scam That Mirrors Many Modern Relationships In 1925, a conman named Victor Lustig pulled off one of the boldest scams in history—he sold the Eiffel Tower. Yes, you read that right. Lustig forged government documents and invited top Parisian scrap metal dealers to a secret meeting. Claiming the Eiffel Tower was to be demolished due to structural decay, he offered to sell it to the highest bidder—privately. One wealthy dealer took the bait, handed over a fortune, and was too embarrassed to report the crime. Astonishingly, Lustig repeated the same con again on another victim. As I reflected on this, I realized that fake love works the same way . A counterfeit partner can look like a dream, talk like your answered prayer, and appeal to your strongest desires—until you realize you were sold a fantasy. By then, heartbreak and shame make i...

Two Ways to Fall in Love – Jason & Lila's Journey By Coach Davie Not everyone falls in love the same way. Jason and Lila didn’t. They came from different backgrounds, had different personalities, and, like most men and women, they loved differently. How Jason Fell in Love – At First Sight Jason was a visual guy. Always had been. He noticed Lila one Sunday afternoon at a mutual friend’s event. She wasn’t loud, but she stood out. Her style was simple, but graceful. Her smile? Warm and disarming. As she laughed with a group of friends, Jason leaned over and whispered to his friend, “Who is that ?” He didn’t know her name yet, but he already knew he wanted to get closer. Men often fall in love with what they see. It’s not shallow—it’s instinctive. Physical beauty draws attention, but what keeps it is far deeper. Jason couldn’t stop thinking about her. He followed her on Instagram that evening. Sent a DM. She replied. The conversations began. He made it clear he was i...