Christian Relationship Advice: You Weren’t Made to Crawl—You Were Born to Soar

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Christian Relationship Advice: You Weren’t Made to Crawl—You Were Born to Soar

(By Coach Davie – Godly Relationship Coaching Blog)

Are You Living Below God’s Design for Love and Marriage?

Imagine an eagle—majestic, powerful—created to soar above storms. Now imagine that eagle scratching in the dirt with chickens, convinced it was never meant to fly.
That’s how many singles and couples live today—settling for less than God’s design for love and marriage.

As a Christian relationship coach, I see it every week: people stuck in unhealthy dating patterns or marriages because they’ve lowered their standards out of fear.
Here’s the truth:
God created you for more. You weren’t made to crawl—you were born to soar.

Christian Relationship Struggles: The Ground-Level Trap

When you settle for less than God’s best, you:

  • Date out of fear instead of faith.

  • Compromise your values to avoid loneliness.

  • Fight in your marriage instead of growing together in grace.

This is why Christian relationship advice for singles and marriage coaching for couples is so important: your mindset determines your love story.

Godly Relationships: What It Means to Soar in Love

Soaring in love means:
- Building a Christ-centered relationship instead of chasing cultural trends.
- Handling challenges with prayer and purpose—not panic and pride.
- Rising above insecurity and rejection by embracing your identity in Christ.

📖 Isaiah 40:31 reminds us:
“Those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles.”

Christian Dating Principles for Singles: Stop Lowering Your Standards

Singles often ask: “What if I never find the right person?”
That fear pushes many into toxic dating cycles. Here’s what to do instead:

  • Choose character over chemistry—godly values over looks and likes.

  • Stop relying on social media validation—root your confidence in Christ.

  • Create a prayer-backed list of non-negotiable values (not shallow traits).

Pro Tip: Journal your vision for marriage and pray over it. This keeps your love life aligned with purpose.

Marriage Advice for Couples: Rise Above the Storms

Storms will come—financial stress, personality clashes, unmet expectations.
But like eagles, you can use the wind to rise higher:

  • Pause before reacting. Ask: “Is this a fight to win or a chance to grow?”

  • Pray together daily. Couples who pray soar above what others fall under.

  • Stop competing; start collaborating: “It’s us versus the problem, not me versus you.”

Faith-Based Relationship Tips: The Key to Soaring

Your relationship doesn’t rise by flapping harder—it rises by trusting the wind of God’s grace.
Stop living in legalism and performance; start walking in humility and love.

💬 Speak this over your life:

“I was made to soar in faith, not crawl in fear.”

Practical Christian Relationship Tips for Singles and Couples

  1. Spot Ground-Level Thinking: Identify fear-based decisions in your love life.

  2. Reframe with Faith: Replace negative thoughts with truth:

    “I’m waiting well because God’s timing is perfect.”

  3. Take One Bold Action: Join a godly community, set healthy boundaries, and schedule honest conversations.

Final Word from Coach Davie on Godly Love

Friend, you were never created to stay stuck in fear, brokenness, or toxic love cycles.
God wired you for freedom, faith, and relationships that honor Him.
So stop scratching in the dirt when you were born for the skies.

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