Preparing for Intertribal Marriage With Wisdom and Grace (Secrets of Marriage Preparation)
Secrets of Marriage Preparation: When the Lake Meets the Ocean Preparing for Intertribal Marriage With Wisdom and Grace - by Coach Davie Love doesn’t always follow cultural boundaries—and that’s a beautiful thing. But when the lake meets the ocean—when two people from different tribes, languages, and customs come together—it takes more than love. It takes intentional preparation . Here’s what we’ve learned (and what many won’t tell you) about preparing for an intertribal marriage . 1. Understand the Weight of Culture Before You Carry It Together Tribe isn’t just identity—it’s history, rhythm, and expectation. When you marry someone from another culture, you’re not just blending two people—you’re blending two worlds . Ask: How is marriage viewed in their tribe? What roles are expected of a husband or wife? How are elders involved? Understanding doesn't mean agreement on everything—but respect is non-negotiable . 2. Don’t Just Translate Words—Translate Worldviews ...