Kuhaswa 3: The traditional Giriama Wedding Ceremony.

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Are the traditional weddings necessary in our times? For the communities who still practice the same, what are the benefits? 

Watch this video and find out the colorful Kenyan Kuhaswa Ceremony by the Coastal Giriama Community. Such a ceremony provides an opportunity for the different members of communities to meet, interact, and bless the couple. 

Note that this ceremony is not a white wedding but a traditional one that takes place at the bride's home.

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