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  8 Subtle Habits That Quietly Kill Respect (And How to Stop Them) By Coach Davie | Davecha Moments Respect is one of the most valuable currencies in relationships, leadership, and personal growth. The challenge is that it’s rarely lost through one dramatic mistake—it’s usually chipped away by small, unnoticed habits. The tragedy? You may never know it’s happening. People don’t always confront you when your behavior lowers their respect. Instead, they quietly adjust how they see you and treat you. As a coach, I’ve seen how subtle daily behaviors —even those born out of good intentions—can unintentionally erode credibility, influence, and trust. Let’s uncover eight habits that may be costing you respect without your awareness. 1. Over-Explaining Your Decisions Have you ever made a simple choice—like declining an invitation or picking a restaurant—then launched into a long explanation of why ? While you think it makes you sound thorough, it can actually communicate insecurity. The mo...

Christian Relationship Advice: You Weren’t Made to Crawl—You Were Born to Soar (By Coach Davie – Godly Relationship Coaching Blog) Are You Living Below God’s Design for Love and Marriage? Imagine an eagle—majestic, powerful—created to soar above storms. Now imagine that eagle scratching in the dirt with chickens, convinced it was never meant to fly. That’s how many singles and couples live today—settling for less than God’s design for love and marriage . As a Christian relationship coach, I see it every week: people stuck in unhealthy dating patterns or marriages because they’ve lowered their standards out of fear. Here’s the truth: God created you for more. You weren’t made to crawl—you were born to soar. Christian Relationship Struggles: The Ground-Level Trap When you settle for less than God’s best, you: Date out of fear instead of faith. Compromise your values to avoid loneliness. Fight in your marriage instead of growing together in grace. This is why Christi...

  5 Signs You’re Ready for Marriage (Christian Relationship Guide) By Coach Davie | Davecha Moments Are you ready for marriage? That’s a big question many couples ask themselves. The truth is, marriage is one of the most significant commitments you’ll ever make. It’s a covenant designed by God—not something to rush into because of pressure, age, or loneliness. If you want a marriage that thrives, not just survives, you must prepare well . Today, let’s talk about 5 clear signs your relationship is ready for marriage based on biblical principles and practical wisdom. 1. You’ve Built a Solid Foundation for Marriage Every strong house stands on a strong foundation—and so does a healthy relationship. If your relationship is built on physical attraction alone, it won’t last. A solid foundation includes: ✔ Open Communication: You can talk honestly without fear. ✔ Mutual Respect: You value each other’s uniqueness. ✔ Shared Values: You agree on faith, family, and life purpose....